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First, you are threatening a child, which makes them fearful of you.

Second, the threat is usually not something that is feasible to do (we are going home, you are going straight to bed, you don’t get dinner, you are grounded for a week, etc.) What we say in frustration is not only impractical but easily forgettable. You can train yourself to be clear and concise, using choices.

Telling a child that they can’t do something makes them prove that they can, by telling you or showing you that it is in fact possible.

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Of course, there will be times when a task must be completed in a certain fashion (homework, etc.).

However, many times we force kids to do something the “right way”, when it could have been done in several ways.

Train yourself to acknowledge their behavior without a judgment, such as “You chose to sit the other way on the chair” or “You colored the grass purple instead”.

This gives them the freedom to be creative and discover things without expectations.

This clearly communicates the expectation and the consequence, without a threat.

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