Dating employee pitfall
Henry Cloud and John Townsend, authors of Boundaries in Dating.
When it comes to giving in to his craving for Italian food over yours for Thai, all is well, but when it concerns deeper issues or becomes an all-the-time part of your togetherness, there's a problem.
Maybe you love to go to the movies, and she can't stand the theater.
Establishing and keeping good limits can do a great deal to not only cure a bad relationship, but make a good one better," they write.
Marie and Edwin, both divorced and in their early 50s, have been dating for three years and intentionally put boundaries into practice.
"I counted on him for too many things, and I ended up at his place a couple of times a week to cook and clean, like it was my job or something.